To Full Term - A Must Read Book

I am a visual reader and this book affected me more than I would have expected. What I mean is that I "see" what I read. It is almost as if I am experiencing it myself as I read the words on the page. I had no idea before hand just how much this book would pull at my heart or how much time I would spend crying, unable to read any further for hours at a time. This is a personal journey written almost like a combination between a blog and journal. If you are sensitive to miscarriage, stillbirth, and premature birth, or have ever experienced any of these, this book may bring those memories screaming back to you as it did for me. I recommend keeping tissues or a hankie on hand while reading the book.What this book will also do is inform you of different conditions that cause miscarriage, stillbirth and premature birth. One that the author Darci has is called Factor V Leiden. This condition impairs the body's natural ability to breakdown and dissolve blood clots. These clots can then travel through the blood stream and find their way to a developing baby's placenta or umbilical cord blocking the flow of needed nutrients and either causing miscarriage or fetal growth retardation. Another condition that the author has is an incompetent cervix. This is the label placed on a cervix that, for unknown reasons, weakens in the second trimester of pregnancy and can no longer support the weight of the developing baby. As the cervix weakens and becomes thinner labor starts and very premature delivery is the normal outcome.There are treatments for both Factor V Leiden and for incompetent cervix, which the author experiences and shares with you in her book. It's more than just the treatment that Darci receives that stirs the emotions as you read; it's her vivid memories of her losses, her daily struggle to maintain a pregnancy that she could lose at any moment, and the family dynamic that changes throughout her pregnancy. As I read the book I could "see" Darci resting on her couch in her new house, or confined to bed and scared to move. I could picture the conversations with her husband, the looks that they would exchange, the pain and fear that would show in their eyes.Darci's pregnancy journey ends in the triumphant birth of her son Sam by scheduled C-section, but that is not where the story ends by any means at all. Included in the book are several wonderful resources for the reader. In "What Every Woman Should Know About Pregnancy Loss" Darci makes statements and offers as much information as a woman needs to make her choices about getting additional testing, as well as knowing what the current guidelines set forth by the ACOG are and why most women are not offered additional testing and treatment for different conditions. She also explains why many miscarriages and stillbirths can be prevented with different treatments, like cervical cerclage.Other resources offered in the book include information on organizations that offer referrals to different physicians. An explanation of the organization and what it offers as well as their URL is included for the reader. She also recommends books about the newest treatments to prevent pregnancy loss as well as the emotional tolls that are experienced after a pregnancy loss and how to prepare for a future pregnancy.This is such a well-written book that is full of information, reality, and hope that I recommend it to all women and couples that have suffered a loss. If you as a woman have suffered a miscarriage or stillbirth, and you and your partner are having difficulties understanding how each other is coping with the loss, this book may give your partner a look at how one woman has lived with and relived her loss. It may open the doors of communication that is needed and allow you to support each other as you grieve and hopefully prepare to take the pregnancy journey again. seuss book collection sets cat hat